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Friday, July 25, 2008

Immigration Approval Received Today

Again, folks, we have some good news & some bad news. It is so frustrating that we can never just get good news; that any news we get is always tempered with new fears and worries.

The good news is that we received our Immigration approval today. The approval date is July 22, 2008. It is good for 18 months, so it will not expire until Jan 22, 2010. However, our fingerprints will expire on September 7, 2009; so we will definitely have to be refingerprinted, and in all likelihood, we will need to apply for immigration approval again.

The bad news is that our agency lost it's Hague accreditation. If a country is a Hague country, like China is, a family can not adopt using an agency that does not have Hague accreditation. This is actually a good thing, and is in place to protect the children, so I am very glad that China is a Hague country. But, I'm not to pleased about our agency losing accreditation.

When we applied, our agency did have Hague accreditation, but it was recently denied after one branch of the agency was non-compliant. If I understand correctly, this non-compliance was the result of an employee (who is obviously no longer there) and CHI is trying to regain it's compliance. But Still, this is so frustrating to me. They sent the email notifying us of their denial on a Friday evening, and have sent other emails out stating that they are working on contacting all of the families to talk with each on about their specific situation.

Right now, because we are already logged in and because we have just received our new immigration approval, I think we are considered "grandfathered in". But, I am not positive about that. I do, however, know that other families that are in a similiar situation as ours, have been told that they (we) would not be affected and our adoption was not in jeopardy in any way, including being pushed back in the 'referral line.' I'm not really sure how much of that I believe.

I also know that CHI has chosen Holt as a back-up agency for any families. But, I really don't know how all that will work, and I don't know if we will need to use them or not. So, I'm just waiting for my phone call to talk about the specifics of our personal adoption.


All in all, I am dismayed and downcast. I have no idea what we're supposed to do (if anything). I keep hanging on to the year 2009, but in my head I really feel like 2009 will come & go and yet Malley will still not be home. When my thoughts head that direction, it very literally makes me sick to my stomach. What? Another year, Lord? Really?

6 comments:

Maddie said...

ugggghhhhh, all of that makes my head hurt. I can only imagine how you are feeling. I just finished day 1 of week 6 of our study. It reminded me that Jesus is the author and perfector of our faith, so when our faith is small, like it naturally is right now, we just need to ask. Ask Him to help your unbelief. He wants to increase our faith. So, I'm going to go right now and get to asking, for you and for me. I love you.

chelle belle said...

Ewwwww. I am SO sorry. What a heart ache. Prayers and hugs to you....

Chelle

Jenny said...

In all honesty, that does suck. I'm so sorry that good news is continuously muddled with bad. Thankfully God sees the big picture though. Hearing that doesn't really make it any easier I'm sure but it's true. Hold tight to His promises and like Tammy said, He's using this to increase your faith. I love you and look forward to rejoicing Malley's arrival with you!

Bridenstine4 said...

We are so sorry. We will continue to be in prayer for your much anticipated progress.

The Wild World of Richmond said...

I can say all that stuff like everybody else, but I'm afraid that it just doesn't help your heart right now. I can re-state what Jo said this morning about Wilma Haynes, "We really don't know what to do to help, but we are hear to lick your wounds and help you heal." I really don't know what to say, but I do know that your family has become very dear to us. When your heart hurts ours does, too. It seems as if the clock continues to stand still over and over with this adoption. I can only hope that one day we will look back on this when all of our children are playing(Malley included) and think of it as yesterday...a blink in our life.
Hugs to your little heart straight from the Richmond house!

Cyndi Lou said...

Oh Shana,

I am so sad to hear of this 'set back'. As Terri said, there are probably no words that any of can say to soothe your heart, but know that we are here for you to listen, talk, cry, scream, whatever you need! And of course, we are praying for doors to swing OPEN to get Malley here soon! Oh, I can't fathom waiting like you are doing. But, again, as Terri said, 'When your heart hurts, our heart hurts!' We are praying for all 5 of you during this agonizingly long wait for your sweet Malley girl!!

Love you,

Cyndi